Can someone please lend me the book "How to manage difficult people?". Though I think at this rate of blogging, I am already compiling little descriptions of vacuous-brained people with malignant pustules growing on every of their neurons.
Welcome to the corporate world, the headline banner greeted me with a falsified gleam. "How wonderful!" I thought to myself. WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD the words bounced back at me at such an alarming speed that is clearly driving me to the edge of malaise. Yes, let me first shake my hands to the world, before I turn pale and sick with the hordes of stupidified people around me. But things have gone round the wrong bend, I am faced with petulance, a new form of diseased behaviour, that I, an unqualified, humble & meek 'sociologist' am trying to obfuscate the myths of such an egregious behaviour.
There is this 'cute' & 'petite' girl I would like to mention(RAVE) about. Or perhaps I shouldn't exaggerate things too much because I don't know her so well, and I don't like to be too judgemental, about people or things I donot really understand. Oh well, so this is just a general comment about such people that I have came across quite a couple of times.
There are many such people who can't make up their minds, no matter how much ample time you give them to consider. The kind who belong to this category could either be : -
1. Can't make up their mind because they are spoilt for choice.
2. Their neurons have decelerated and they can't be bothered to think.
3. Have a rough idea of what to do, but still can't make up their minds, for they are afraid lest they make the wrong choices.
4.Just simply plain (irritatingly) indecisive.
My English teacher once said that Life & Wisdom is about the decisions you make, the choices you choose and the paths you take.
Some people such as the "Petite Girl" I was about to mention is indecisive, deluded and STUPID (This sums up everything wholly) Strange people ask strange tormenting questions that burse blood vessels. Like her, they often ask redundant , repeating questions to the point of vexation from others. For example:
"What should I do...?"
"What should I wear...?
"Should I ...."
"What if ...."
"How am I..."
Sometimes they already know the freaking answers to their questions, but they still ask because, They:
1. want to gain attention
2. want to affirm their decisions x100 times
3. fret over their choices/decisions
4. are born to torment people with their discombobulation
5. are losers in solving problems
6. are confused and in denial
7. can't face up to reality
8. inflexible in thinking.
9. want to waste other people time
10. are un-independent
If this whole world is run by such people, I will jump out of the window NOW. Anyway, this petite girl is probably very spoiled, very stupid & brainless, to predispose her to such problems and as a result causing misery to the people around her. Having to listen to her amazing stories is truly enlightening. I wonder how her BF have patience to actually tolerate her nonsense. A personal experience gave me the insights to attest to her silliness.
Well, she had an interview the following week, so she decided to ask me about the company, and stuff the company is involved in. I told her that you should be checking the website, and get info from pamphlets instead of asking me, like how the heck would I know anything about it? And to my consternation, she has already done it, and her BF has already helped her. Now, what is her problem? That perhaps she needs some confirmation and affirmation to fool herself that she is preparing for the heaven-forbidden interview?! Disgusting...
There was another time when someone asked me which piano pieces she should play for the exam, and she kept fretting over it. I mean you and your teacher have already chosen the pieces months ago, and not only that you have already practised the pieces. You jolly well know the answer to the lame question.
And for others: Their favourite phrase is "I'll see about it ... " when the answer required for the question is either YES or NO. Is that so difficult?
Can someone please tell them to attend some courses or read some books on "HOW TO BE MORE DECISIVE"? And
yes, someone please buy me the book, "How to Handle Difficult People", though I probably guess that ignorance is ALWAYS bliss.
Welcome to the corporate world, the headline banner greeted me with a falsified gleam. "How wonderful!" I thought to myself. WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD the words bounced back at me at such an alarming speed that is clearly driving me to the edge of malaise. Yes, let me first shake my hands to the world, before I turn pale and sick with the hordes of stupidified people around me. But things have gone round the wrong bend, I am faced with petulance, a new form of diseased behaviour, that I, an unqualified, humble & meek 'sociologist' am trying to obfuscate the myths of such an egregious behaviour.
There is this 'cute' & 'petite' girl I would like to mention(RAVE) about. Or perhaps I shouldn't exaggerate things too much because I don't know her so well, and I don't like to be too judgemental, about people or things I donot really understand. Oh well, so this is just a general comment about such people that I have came across quite a couple of times.
There are many such people who can't make up their minds, no matter how much ample time you give them to consider. The kind who belong to this category could either be : -
1. Can't make up their mind because they are spoilt for choice.
2. Their neurons have decelerated and they can't be bothered to think.
3. Have a rough idea of what to do, but still can't make up their minds, for they are afraid lest they make the wrong choices.
4.Just simply plain (irritatingly) indecisive.
My English teacher once said that Life & Wisdom is about the decisions you make, the choices you choose and the paths you take.
Some people such as the "Petite Girl" I was about to mention is indecisive, deluded and STUPID (This sums up everything wholly) Strange people ask strange tormenting questions that burse blood vessels. Like her, they often ask redundant , repeating questions to the point of vexation from others. For example:
"What should I do...?"
"What should I wear...?
"Should I ...."
"What if ...."
"How am I..."
Sometimes they already know the freaking answers to their questions, but they still ask because, They:
1. want to gain attention
2. want to affirm their decisions x100 times
3. fret over their choices/decisions
4. are born to torment people with their discombobulation
5. are losers in solving problems
6. are confused and in denial
7. can't face up to reality
8. inflexible in thinking.
9. want to waste other people time
10. are un-independent
If this whole world is run by such people, I will jump out of the window NOW. Anyway, this petite girl is probably very spoiled, very stupid & brainless, to predispose her to such problems and as a result causing misery to the people around her. Having to listen to her amazing stories is truly enlightening. I wonder how her BF have patience to actually tolerate her nonsense. A personal experience gave me the insights to attest to her silliness.
Well, she had an interview the following week, so she decided to ask me about the company, and stuff the company is involved in. I told her that you should be checking the website, and get info from pamphlets instead of asking me, like how the heck would I know anything about it? And to my consternation, she has already done it, and her BF has already helped her. Now, what is her problem? That perhaps she needs some confirmation and affirmation to fool herself that she is preparing for the heaven-forbidden interview?! Disgusting...
There was another time when someone asked me which piano pieces she should play for the exam, and she kept fretting over it. I mean you and your teacher have already chosen the pieces months ago, and not only that you have already practised the pieces. You jolly well know the answer to the lame question.
And for others: Their favourite phrase is "I'll see about it ... " when the answer required for the question is either YES or NO. Is that so difficult?
Can someone please tell them to attend some courses or read some books on "HOW TO BE MORE DECISIVE"? And
yes, someone please buy me the book, "How to Handle Difficult People", though I probably guess that ignorance is ALWAYS bliss.
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